The Parish of All Saints, Mission devoted the whole month of June 2021 to Truth and Reconciliation.
Children's shoes and toys were arranged around the altar, so they could be seen on Zoom, including moccasins that belonged to Indigenous members of the congregation.
On June 3 a group of parishioners observed the Burning ceremony and a Vigil for remembrance and healing for Indigenous peoples and the community at large following the announcement of the discovery of unmarked graves in Kamloops. This was sponsored by the Mission Friendship Centre at Fraser River Heritage Park, the site of a Residential School.
A church member reported on the event during Sunday worship:
"The ceremony began with a fire for the burning of traditional food, to which Elders, one at a time, followed by others, could add food. Burning the food is a spiritual way to symbolically feed the starving children forced to attend residential schools. Drumming and singing accompanied this ceremony. Two of All Saints congregation were drummers.
Following this, several Elders who had attended residential school spoke about what they had endured and how it affected them. One Elder who had attended a school in the coastal area of BC spoke about hate being the only thing she learned there. Carrying all this anger resulted in a self-destructive life in Vancouver. Fortunately, she was able to turn her life around and realize that, as she said, love, not hate, was the answer to living life. As a result, she strongly encouraged her children to pursue education. One son became a doctor. Another Elder requested that if people want to help with Reconciliation, that housing is a huge area of need.
A very generous lunch was served, and is the custom in Indigenous culture, as Elders, two parishioners were given lunch.
The Vigil was very moving and left us saddened but with more emotional understanding of what transpired in these schools. We need not only to acknowledge the missing children who lost their lives in neglectful and abusive ways, but also the many ways the legacy continues to harm our Indigenous neighbours. It is a first step toward healing, and I hope another step towards Reconciliation."
Worship on Sunday June 20 included text compiled by the Anglican Council of Indigenous Peoples. Drummers were present during the service and the church bell was rung at the conclusion of the service.
There was a special collection at the Offertory for the two scholarships awarded (for five years now) to First Nations, Métis or Inuit students graduating from Ecole Mission Secondary School. This year's students are Rena Knight and Vera Peters.
Rena is of the Lil’wat Nation and has worked with Elders in her community to learn their teachings. She feels privileged to have learned so much and willingly shares her knowledge with others. She is part of the school drum group and has worked with and supported a younger elementary school girl. As a child who has been in care due to substance abuse issues in her family, Renae has proven to be resilient, answering the call to help others. She hopes to be a minister or a counsellor and to that end has been accepted at both Columbia Bible College and the University of the Fraser Valley.
Vera is of the Chawathil Nation. She has been impacted by the residential school system on both sides of her family; sadly her mother is one of the Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women. This led Vera to be one of the creators of the MMIW gathering in Mission which is now organized by Mission Friendship Centre. She is a drummer and a gifted singer and has mentored students at Hatzic Middle School. She wants to be a chef and expects to enter Riverside College, then transfer to University of the Fraser Valley. At present she is working full time as a cook in Hope and completing her Grade 12 through Summit Learning Centre. As Jody Shaw, MSS Indigenous Department Head says of the two scholarship recipients,
“They are both strong young women walking in a good way.” We offer our congratulations to Rena and Vera and wish them all the best in their future studies.
Thanks to a generous donation last year, the parish is pleased to give each recipient $750 in 2021 instead of the usual $500.
Article submitted by the All Saints, Mission Truth and Reconciliation Committee